I WAS NEVER THE ONE TO BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT TILL I MET THIS ONE DUDE...UNFORTUNATELY HE IS MARRIED, BUT HAS NO TYPE OF RELATIONS WITH HIS WIFE..AS TIME PROGRESSED OUR FRIENSDSHIP PROGRESSED TO SOEMTHIN OUT OF THIS WORLD OUR RELATIONSHIP TOO...NOW THINGS ARE KIND OF ROCKY ND I FEEL LIKE HE HAS GIVEN UP...SHOULD I????

I was dating a guy for quite some time and eventually he moved in with me. He was verya ttentive in every way except the bedroom. Right away he stared calling sex 'work' and saying 'yu expect me to work again'. I have never experienced this before and didn't know what to think. He always said he was tired. Then he fianlly admitted to me that he had a serious problem that he ahd for years. He is over weight and eats everything he isn't suposed to. He is borderline diabetic and now is on meds for that and bloodpressure. I have since broken up with him but miss him. How dod you get passed something like that? He really messed with my head and still wants to marry me.. Biggest problem I love sex.. And can't imagine liveing without.

I've been dating a man for almost 2 years now. We are both divorced and have 3 kids each. We have a passionate, loving relationship and spend most of our free time together. I'm ready for more. I asked him to move in with me last fall and he declined. He lost his house and said he needed to live alone and get his life back in order before he could move on with me. I respected that answer. But I want to move in together and be engaged. He thinks I'm too anxious and not patient. And he says he is just not ready yet. I think 2 years is a sufficient amount of time. So, what do you think? Is he making excuses and he'll never marry me or does he need more time to recover from his divorce? Am I being a patienet, compromising girlfriend by waiting or am I sacrificing my own needs and happiness?

I am married but feel I have some connection with my husbands friend. When every my husband steps out or away from the table he says things to me. His friend is alway saying really sweet words, such as how good I look or fixing my sweatshirt. Or it is just the way he looks at me when were sitting there. I can not get him out of my head.